Jill Scott won’t be specific about who “dickmatized” her, but the Light of the Sun artist doesn’t deny that she’s been a victim.
What exactly is “dickmatized”?
“Where you get caught up in the whole sexuality of your relationship but it’s not going anywhere… Just somebody giving you the goods but not necessarily giving you the rest—or not expecting the rest from them,” Jill told S2S Publisher Jamie Foster Brown.
Although she enjoyed it in the past, Jill advises women not to get caught up in strictly sexual relationships.
“What I’ve discovered is, although it may be a lot of fun, it is also a waste of time and you might be blocking your blessing—blocking somebody who wants to be more to you than just a great time in your life,” explained Jill, who said she’s still looking for that person who wants to be more.
How did she become un-dickmatized?
“Just realizing what I have to offer. I’m so much more than my flesh!” she said.
Get more on Jill, “dickmatizing” and all her upcoming projects in the August 2011 issue of Sister 2 Sister.