Being comfortable in a relationship is important, but don’t let yourself go too much. What it took to get your baby hooked is how you keep their attention.
“After you’ve been with one person for awhile, it’s easy to fall into what I call the ‘sweats’ rut,” Tia advised. “That is, you no longer feel like you have to impress them and start paying less and less attention to your appearance, and every day becomes a sweats and t-shirt kind of day.
Tia points out, though, you definintely need to find the right groove for you, writing, “I’m definitely not saying that you need to be frantically hitting the gym everyday to keep the body you had 5 years ago, but it is important to remember to still make an effort sometimes.”