If the group says you got read, you got read.
It turns out that no matter how you’re feeling about a confrontation with another woman, the group as a whole decides whether or not you were read. Though Mynique said she didn’t feel read after Phaedra checked her, Cynthia let the newbie know what was what. “If the group says you got read, you got read,” Cynthia said. As with most things, the perspective of the majority is what determines reality. “We received it for you,” said Cynthia.