Read the right person.
When a situation gets tense, sometimes anger is misplaced. For instance, after listening to Kandi Burruss and Phaedra talk about their past relationships with her husband, Mynique barked back at Porsha for a seemingly innocent remark.
While Cynthia gave Mynique props for standing up for herself, it was clear that Mynique was misdirecting her frustration. As Cynthia pointed out, it’s not just about how you read. It’s also about who you read. Make sure your aim isn’t off.